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來源描述：	<p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;text-align:center;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#FFFFFF;background-color:#A30911;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"> 02 </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;text-align:center;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">孩子厭學情緒的高發期</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;text-align:center;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">告訴孩子他在為誰、為什么而學習</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">四、五年級是孩子厭學情緒的高發期，很多孩子開始討厭學習，討厭寫作業，甚至對父母常說的“要好好學習”等話也會表現出強烈的反感。</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">為什么會出現這種情況呢？</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">首先，這與孩子的自我意識形成和思維能力的發展有關。</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">在一年級到三年級的時候，孩子會更多地遵從家長和老師的意見，從不會過多去想“為什么”，他們認為家長和老師的話就是真理。但是，到了四年級后，孩子的思維能力迅速發展，他們開始有了自己的獨立思維，他們開始思考：我為什么要學習？學習不好能怎樣呢？</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">由于自我意識剛剛出現，這時候的孩子固執地認為，自己可以解決所有的問題。這時，父母的嘮叨和命令不僅會令孩子感到厭煩，而且會給他們一種錯誤的信息：學習是一件很艱苦的事情，他在為父母而學習。在這種錯誤信息的感染下，孩子就會產生厭學情緒。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">●</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"> 其次，這與父母不了解小學階段知識的難度發展規律有關。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;font-family:-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "font-size:17px;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">到了四、五年級，學習難度不斷加大，很多孩子都會感覺到對學習力不從心。如果父母還總是不理解孩子，甚至是斥責、打罵孩子，那孩子只能是厭惡學習，從而產生很強烈的厭學情緒。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">做父母的，不管你的孩子正處于哪個年齡段，你要想教育好他們，必須提前了解他們的心理。做父母的就應該提前向孩子灌輸“學習是他自己的事情”這個觀念。這樣，對于思維正在高速發展的四、五年級孩子來說，這將會促使他們的成績穩步前進，而不是厭學。</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">父母要對孩子多些鼓勵，少些抱怨；多些表揚，少些批評。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">孩子在四年級之前，或者在讀四、五年級的過程中，父母還應該提前知道哪些知識呢？或者說，父母應該如何對待孩子呢？</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法一：讓孩子知道，學習是他自己的事情。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;font-family:-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "font-size:17px;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">很多的父母在孩子的學習上花了大量的心思，但是，容易讓孩子產生誤解：他是在為父母而學習。父母越是逼著孩子去認真學習，越可能給孩子創造了拒絕學習、反駁父母的機會。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">　</span></span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">案例：</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <blockquote style="margin:1em 0px;padding:4px 0px 0px 10px;border-left:3px solid #DBDBDB;color:#3E3E3E;font-size:16px;max-width:100%;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:15px;color:#888888;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">一天，媽媽下班回家，看到曉宇拿著課本在客廳里一邊看電視，一邊看書。她沒有像往常那樣勃然大怒，逼著孩子回到自己的房間里去看書，而是跟孩子打過招呼后，就開始忙自己的家務。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;font-size:14px;color:#888888;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:SimHei;">一會兒，曉宇沉不住氣了，跑過來對媽媽說:“媽媽，我們明天要考語文。”媽媽“嗯”了一聲，就沒再理他。他還在繼續試探媽媽，說：“可是，媽媽，我還沒有復習完呢！”媽媽還是“嗯”了一聲，又開始忙自己的事情。曉宇有點失望地對媽媽說：“媽媽，你怎么不理我呀？你是不是不關心我了呀？”</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-left:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:15px;color:#888888;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">媽媽放下手里的家務，認真對他說：“你似乎希望我逼你去看書。媽媽當然希望你能考出好成績了，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">可是學習是你自己的事情，要不要去看書，在哪看書，是應該由你自己來決定的事情。</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">”從此以后，曉宇對媽媽的態度深信不疑了。</span></span> </p> </blockquote> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">當孩子試探父母時，父母的態度一定要堅定，說不參與就不參與。如果面對曉宇的試探，媽媽用責備的口氣對曉宇說“再不好好看書，就會考試不及格”“考不好會被老師懲罰的”……那么，曉宇會繼續與媽媽玩這種“你越管我，我越不好好學”的游戲。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">●  </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法二：告訴孩子——你要為理想而學習</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">現在有很多的家長這樣勸孩子好好學習：“如果你不好好學習，將來就找不到好工作！”“如果你不好好學習，將來就娶不到媳婦（找不到好老公）！”“如果你不好好學習，你將來就會成為社會最底層的人，就要過很艱苦的生活！”……</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">也許父母們試圖用自己的經歷和經驗來說服孩子要好好學習，然而，父母們卻忽略了這一點：四年級的孩子，正處于思維的高速發展期，他們已經有了自己的思維，不再像小時候那樣，父母說什么，他們就信什么。作為父母，我們應該告訴孩子，他們要為自己的理想而學習。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">在幫助孩子樹立理想時，家長要特別注意一點，一定不要把自己的思想強加于孩子身上，例如強迫孩子把某個不喜歡的職業當做自己的理想。而是</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">要根據孩子的特長和愛好，幫助孩子樹立理想。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法三：父母不要太關注孩子的學習成績</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">生活中，我們常常聽到家長這樣教育孩子：“如果這次你考好了，你想要什么，媽媽就給你買什么。”“考了這么少的分，我都替你感到丟人，你還好意思要這要那！”……這種教育只能是害了他們，或者使他們變得越來越蠻橫不講理，或者使他們的成績大幅下降，郁郁寡歡，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">甚至走向抑郁或自卑。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">每一位家長都應該用平常心來看待孩子的成績。</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">學習是學生的職責</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">，學習好是每個學生都應該做到的事情。家長不要因為孩子的成績好而沾沾自喜，或者用各種各樣的物質來獎勵她，這樣只會讓你的孩子有個錯覺：學習是為家長學的。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">對待成績不好的孩子，家長首先不能打罵他們，其次要鼓勵他們，幫他們分析成績不好的原因，幫他們找到適合他們的學習方法，并告訴他們：“只要學習一直在進步，成績是次要的。”</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">家長還要為孩子創造一個輕松地學習氛圍，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">如與孩子一起討論學習中遇到的問題、與孩子一起讀書、一起學習……不要動不動就問孩子成績</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">、放學后就催促孩子去做作業，這樣只能讓孩子有種錯覺：他是為成績而活。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法四：父母對孩子不要太過嚴厲</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">在小學一至三年級，孩子是沒有理性思維能力的，父母要求什么，他們就會做什么，父母說什么，他們就會聽什么。此時，父母的嚴厲可以起到作用。</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">但到了四、五年級，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">孩子有了自己的理性思維能力，有了自我意識</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">，當父母再嚴厲地要求他們去學習、再規定他們每次考試必須達到的名次時，孩子就會覺得學習是件很苦的事情，從而對學習產生厭煩情緒。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">對于那些還沒有上學，或者剛剛讀小學的孩子來說，父母們不要急于教會他們多少知識，也不要要求他們考多么好的名次，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">學習興趣和學習能力的培養才是最重要的。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">關于對10歲之前孩子的教育，一位兒童心理學家總結的很好：</span></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <blockquote style="margin:1em 0px;padding:4px 0px 0px 10px;border-left:3px solid #DBDBDB;color:#3E3E3E;font-size:16px;max-width:100%;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-left:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;font-size:14px;color:#888888;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:SimHei;">多問快樂，少問學習；</span></strong><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:15px;color:#888888;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">多問“這次考試中，你細心了嗎”，少問“這次考試你考了多少名啊”；</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">多問“你喜歡學……”，少說“今天我教你學……”</span></span> </p> </blockquote>

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